Would you be able to estimate the dollar amount value of yourself?
How much would you cost?
Are you saying that you are priceless?
Did I hear that well?
Let me take you through the evaluation process of how much you may cost.
- Cleaning lady with additional request to do laundry
- Baby-sitter with additional request to cook for kids
- Personal cook
- Personal entertaining person
- Personal grocery shopping person
- Car cleaning and vacuuming services
- Landscaping company
- Home-based teacher for kids’ homework
- Personal chauffeur
- Personal nurse and care giver
Did I forget anything?
I may. I forgot the energetic actions despite the tiredness, caring smile despite the frustration. I didn’t mention the nurturing love despite self-hate and nourishment despite lack of self-care.
Someone said, that if women were about to receive the exact pay for every job they do, they would be the richest individuals on this planet.
People will judge, evaluate, estimate and tell you that you are too much, or too expensive. Well, if that is the case, look back at them and ask them, how expensive do they feel right now? What value do they bring to your life, their life or the life of others? Are THEY expensive?
Inexpensive in somebody’s eyes may mean a huge treasure in others eyes.
Let me voice this:
I am speaking to you right now, yes YOU, beYOUtiful lady!!!
Stop underestimating yourself. Stop hiding. Stop apologizing for your being. Don’t dress down to blend in. Don’t shut up when you know you need to speak up. Stop saying what you think people want to hear. Stop trying to be polite and please everyone.
The real rejection is the rejection of yourself.
Love and be honest. Love and be YOU. Own your wins. Own your successes. Own your power and energy. Own your beauty and attractiveness. Own your voice. Own yourself.
YOU are expensive and you deserve to be treated that way!
I am HERE. I am NOW. I am ME. ❤