The Shadow of the Past

Meet Izabelka ☺

Izabelka always knew what she wanted to do with her life. She dreamt of exotic adventures, mysterious trips and adrenaline-filled expeditions to third-world countries.

Watching documentaries just pumped her heart up even more and brought those visions closer and closer.

She felt like she wanted to be a free soul forever.

As Izabelka grew, a more “adult” approach to life began to creep in and poison her soul. “You can’t do that. You won’t be able to do that. You need an education like everyone else. You need a 9-5 job like everyone else. You need a husband and kids to be happy…. You need to be exactly like EVERYONE ELSE!!!”

Izabelka soon became Izabela, a woman who fulfilled all of the requirements that the world had set up for her.

She was a good student, a good employee and a good wife. She achieved everything that adults in the “real world” were supposed to achieve.

In the eyes of everyone around Izabela, her life was so beautiful, but that was just on the outside.

In her most intimate and private moments, Izabela couldn’t look herself in the mirror. She couldn’t look into her own eyes and feel as happy and confident about her life as EVERYONE ELSE seemed to feel.

Deep in her heart, there was only one person on Earth who Izabela hated: HERSELF.

Why wasn’t she proud of herself? Why wasn’t she motivated and passionate about living her life? What crucial thing was missing that would allow her to accept and even applaud herself every day?

The moment you recognize that you are missing the most important piece of your life’s puzzle is a very empowering one.

It is the first step towards having better days.

It gives you a chance to stop and reflect.

It brings forth important questions that you have to answer right then and there: WHO AM I NOW? WHO AM I GOING TO BE SOON?

It takes enormous courage to stand up tall and forgive yourself and others for the past and to understand that you didn’t waste those years. In that time, you gained a lot of wisdom and experience.

They are what brought you here to this moment and to these questions. They are what made you become more aware of your needs, your inner strength, and your willpower. They challenged you to face your past, your fears and your dreams all at the same time.

Didn’t you dream big like Izabelka did? Well, Izabela can do the same NOW, too.

I want you to take your time and focus on these points towards your own life-changing transformation:

  • Imagine yourself as a child. Remember the younger and childlike version of yourself who wasn’t afraid to dream big.
  • Look at who you are now and try to bring those childhood dreams to today’s picture of yourself.
  • Tell yourself that you are the same person, and you can still dream big. Tell yourself that you can do or achieve anything.
  • Forgive yourself for letting that little girl be forgotten and make her a part of your life now.
  • Understand that the past belongs to the past and NOW belongs to NOW— you are in charge.
  • The “adult” world didn’t make YOU happy so stop trying to make the “adult” world happy!

You can do it!

You are capable!

You are enough!

 

I am HERE. I am NOW. I am ME. ❤

Izabela (aka Izabelka)

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